He’s more than just my boyfriend. He is my entire world. It started just like any other romantic relationship. I was insecure. He had his struggles. However, we quickly recognized that we had been made for each other. We bonded like Lego blocks, and regardless of how rough things got, it strengthened us. I’ve learned that the moment you are truly in love, difficult situations will only strengthen you.
He is my lover, but much more, he’s my friend, but more is more than this, maybe a soulmate maybe? I’m not sure what I would have to do with him. Let me give you some signs that shout that ‘He is more than just a boyfriend.’ I hope that you will be able to identify with me.
1. You send him cute photos of you
He sends you the most absurd photos, and you aren’t worried at all. Morning pictures, you might think you appear like a monkey, and you’re likely right (Oh sure, I’m talking about photos with no makeup naked skin) and photos of your sweaty self in the gym after a workout and, yes, even late-night selfies that make you look like an angry owl.
And who cares? Last night I sent my boyfriend my most groovy photos, to which he generously replied, ‘Aww, you’re so adorable. A different person would have thrown away my disgusting self there. But, a double chin up to the sky, I’m not worried!
2. You’ll end up laughing your heart out every time you get into a heated argument.
You’re not sure if you can take his words seriously, which could be an issue in the end, since every time he attempts to make you believe in the significance of something, you cannot smile. He has such a cute, angry face. You also know that he’d be happy to make fun of him. It’s a guarantee that you’ll overcome it.
3. He is amazed by how you play
Acquire you watched Kung Fu Panda? If yes, then you’ll understand what I’m talking about. You text him often about how you handle certain everyday situations, and he’s so over yours. For example, a few days ago, I told him how there was lots of food left at the end of the night; I was left with no space to store it, so I decided to hold an eating contest with my older brother. It was no surprise that I took the prize. He thinks I’m a genius for coming up with this idea!
4. Your affection for Netflix is just too sweet to be real
You make plans for all-nighters watching Netflix, and you will continue to do it this way. Five hours worth of favorite movies and late-night food delivery. You decide to go to bed after you are unable to fill your stomach with more food. It’s too amazing to be real.
5. You are a total garbage truck in the presence of him
You are a glutton for food whenever he’s at your side, and your stomach might get a little bloated due to all the food, but you don’t sweat a bit. All that you throw at him is thrown away. Amazingly, you fall into your love each moment he watches you put the hamburger into your mouth. You’re not afraid to eat a quarter of your fries.
6. You could be a baby in their presence
It is possible to be an absolute baby when they are around, and they love every minute of it. Of course, I punch him in the face and run after the next few minutes, but he does eventually catch up with me since I’m a fat cow, and he tickles me the heck off of me. When our parents first witnessed us handing out cards and invitations, they were stunned that we were dating. It’s exactly what my mother told me. I am shocked that you are dating’.
7. You can sing to one another songs
He has a terrible voice, and I’m not talking about zero talent, but I enjoy it when I hear him sing for him. He usually sings to me in the evening, and my sisters mock me, but I think it’s very romantic.
Did I mention that I also sing for him? The only issue is that I’m worse than him, and every time the two of us sing, it sounds horrible, but we sing our hearts despite it. It’s amazing to look at how much we’ve developed as a couple since the first time we started our relationship. I was unable to cough before him.
8. Your guys are honest and brutally truthful
I’m talking about ‘they’ll rip the skin off your flesh’ truthful. When you say things as they are, you’re not worried about sugarcoating them because you trust that your partner will never cause harm to you. Your level of trust is elegance.
9. There is a good chance that you share your homes
You’ve been to the homes of each other in so many instances that formalities are no longer necessary. I ask his mother what’s on the menu for dinner, if it’s good, I’m sure to leave after dinner. Food is love, and food is life! He came to my home and brought his school report a couple of days ago, and my mom had an overview of his marks ahead of his mum did.
10. They can make you smile.
It’s not necessary to make yourself smile every time you’re around them. Happiness is a natural thing when having a good time.
11. You and your partner have an unspoken handshake
Both of you have attempted to create an unintentional handshake and were successful to a degree. However, you didn’t create a trend due to being embarrassed by the opinions of others about it.
12. Living with them is an adventure
A visit to the doctor is an adventure when you’re with them. They make life more exciting. For example, the other day, I was required to go to the doctor to receive shots against tetanus. Needless to add, the doctor was a bit snarky of me throughout the process. I’m not one to like having the needles in my body, and he attempted to calm me down by telling me how painful birth would be. But it was nothing more than needles.
13. He’s not afraid of waiting for you to come back.
Your relationship goes far more than just physical and intimate He doesn’t press you to do anything, and he won’t force you into doing anything, and you can trust his opinion. I have met many women who don’t want sexual contact, but they find themselves having it because their boyfriends pressure them into it. It’s a joke; whatever they do, girls, don’t let anyone get their way on you.
For the record, the man waited three years to see me be at my best. He didn’t pressure me even once. So, I know that if an individual tells a girl that he cannot put it on his pants, it is likely to be a lie.
14. He is your top priority
It doesn’t matter if you have positive or negative no matter what happens. It’s the first person to call. You discuss every aspect of your lives with each other and trust each other with your lives. So I’m going to be first, your number one. Oh. Do you remember that track?
15. You yearn for his presence from the moment when he leaves the door
You feel a sense of loss as soon as he leaves your home. Your perfect day could be looking at him. But, instead, I’m sure I’m not getting enough out of him. Once he’s gone the room, a sense of emptiness is felt in my heart. the issue isn’t about love, but that the amount of time spent with him is enough. I’m genuinely thinking of rubbing his face and gazing into his massive, deep brown eyes. Man, I’m missing the man I used to love so much!
16. It doesn’t matter if you look like a total thing of rubbish
However pathetic you appear, he will think you’re stunning! Did I mention that looks do not matter when you’re in love? Some say that love is blind, but I believe it’s deaf and dumb also. Do you know how adorable he looks when he’s afflicted with influenza and is red with bodily fluids flowing from his nose and eyes? It’s the same when you appear like someone who’s been in an encounter with a pack of Raccoons!
17. Silence is a moment to cherish
In my experience, it’s not uncommon due to me talking excessively. Beyond that, I’d be happy looking at the stars as I hold his hand. The moments of silence mean so more than just space. They speak of all the wonderful memories you’ve made together and all the dreams the future holds for you. Certain things do not need to be spoken about to be understood; they can be seen through the eyes of your partner.
18. It’s not like you gross each other out.
You’re aware that he’s suffering from constipation. You wish him well by saying, ‘I know you’ll be able to get through this challenge. You’re stronger than you imagine’. You also know that you haven’t taken a bath for three days, and you’re aware that he doesn’t remember when he has to wash the bathroom (every time), and you rush in after him to flush your toilet prior to anyone else finding out. Love is indeed messy, and often, it’s about being able to keep your partner around regardless of how soiled it becomes.
19. You’re quite fiercely competitive
We are both obsessed with Dota, and we play it every time we have the chance. The loss to your friend is a huge embarrassing experience, so you do it at an intimate level and be willing to do anything to be the winner. My partner brought me a massive Pizza and Coke on Friday evening. The perfect excuse to get away, and I even was the winner!
20. You end up loving one another all the time
It’s a bit crazy. Even though I’m not one to be a weirdo in public, I do it regardless. He promises to behave the next time he meets one of my male acquaintances. However, he transforms to this annoying, stuck-up brat when he’s with them. I’m always angry; however he smiles a sweet look and claims that regardless of how hard he attempts, to be, he is jealous of their presence. I feel the same way about his female colleagues.
21. He knows precisely what he will buy you on your birthday
The man I have been with knows my preferences and provides me with exactly what I would like for every birthday. I’m not the kind woman who likes expensive gifts but, oh man, I do love food! He always makes sure that he has approximately 10kgs of sweets for me every single time. I am falling harder for him!
22. He makes you a better person
Some people around the world inspire the best of you, and he’s definitely among them. But, I think that nobody affects your life more or makes you change greater than your spouse. The ideal partner can not only help you become an improved human being, but they’ll remove all of your fears and anxieties. They will take away any fears. They can make you feel like the most confident and secure person in the world. Sometimes, just one person (the perfect person) can be the most important factor They can make all the difference in your life!
23. You’ll hear everything that is spoken by them.
You might be disgusted by firearms, sports, and automobiles and prefer not to have anything to do with them. Deal with these things. However, you enjoy listening to the things he says even though you do not know what he’s discussing most of the time, but you smile and give a nod of acceptance regardless. There’s something to his way of talking about his most favorite football player as well as an engine from his most beloved automobile. How exciting! You’ll do anything to watch his eyes sparkle in that way.
24. There aren’t any good photos
Every time he’s planning to take a photo, you get a bit excited. It’s a shame that you don’t have one decent photo to show the world, but looking back, I’d say you’ve both made some lovely memories.
25. You’re the only ones who have secrets
You’re as if you read a book and hold no secrets. Incredibly, one person can learn all about you. They have all the details of your most embarrassing moments, and you are confident that your secrets are secure with them. You share everything with them. My girlfriend has a female acquaintance who informed her that the partner’s ex-wife is engaged to one of his close friends. She advised me not to reveal the information to him, but I had to.
He said that she was always attracted to him, and he believed that something was happening between them, but he was able to trust her. So I advised the guy to put it aside, and we never spoke about it again.
A few months later, a group of his friends showed up to discuss what was happening. My partner put on his finest (I didn’t know the situation between them), smiled, and thanked them for helping him. Wink.
26. You pick each other’s clothes
You will have this brief five-minute session each night when you email your other photos of what you’re going to wear for the following day. He’s your personal style advisor. It’s the most trust-building exercise!
27. He offers the most valuable advice you can get anywhere
Whatever situation you’re in, he’s there to help you. He’s not selfish and has your best interests in mind when giving you suggestions. Even if it’s to a university within the same state, he will be your defender and provide assistance and advice anytime you need it. HE will always have your best interests at heart. However, it could also mean that He could stop you from doing some things. you man also check these things all Men do when they’re in love
28. Acceptance is the most important thing that he can give you.
You love one another completely with your difficult past, uncertain present, and uncertain future. He acknowledges your imperfections. However, he believes they are what make you perfect. Your presence fills him with life, and no matter your appearance or your fears and anxieties, He accepts you as better or worse.
29. You like to be annoyed by each other
For the sheer fun of having fun with it. You enjoy scaring them and performing silly pranks. It’s so enjoyable to have someone whom you can play with. I confessed to my husband that I had burned his most loved shirt while ironing it the other day. I’m sure he was dismayed; however, all he said was, ‘It’s okay baby, it’s just the shirt.’
When I explained that I was laughing, he rushed towards my face and kissed me as if he was really serious. Then, he told me he was angry but didn’t show any sign of it as he was afraid to offend me. I’m a mess, so I made a trip to the market this morning and bought two identical watches to be safe.
30. You have both come up with absurd nicknames for one another
I refer to him as an absolute dork, and I am called an unclean nerd. But, it’s all good fun.
31. He will always remind you of how much he values you
His actions are constantly a reminder of his feelings for you. He doesn’t simply say he is in love with you. He shows it by his actions. He stands by you and is always looking out for you. There is no stopping him from how much the way he feels for you. He will be there every day, and make sure you understand that he is devoted to him and how he is concerned for you. Sounds quixotic? That’s exactly what it is.
32. Then again, everything isn’t perfect.
The relationships aren’t always smooth sailing; however, he can ignore all the. There is more to life than play and fun, and he is aware of that. However, some minor disputes and disagreements don’t keep him from acknowledging that the bond you have in common is beautiful and unique and that no one else he’d like to be with other than you. He knows the difference between affection and love, and when he tells you”I love you,” he will keep it in mind regardless of what transpires.
33. They recognize that love is not meant to be a single-time experience
They are aware of the significance of love and recognize that those who achieve it are very fortunate humans. They know that they can’t be perfect with you. However, they’re willing to strive for it. They would like to live a long time with you and be with each other more strongly than had before. They won’t let go of what you and I have for the treasures of the world.