I cannot stress enough how much we would like men had these skills The best of men do not understand the basics of our needs. These aren’t a big matter, but our lives could be so much better If men were aware of them.
1. Hear us out.
We know that you work hard and it’s not easy to be full of energy at the end of an exhausting day. We have worked all day too, and we love you. There is nobody on earth we’d like to speak to more than us. women. They need to let their feelings out. So please, be open to our thoughts. It will mean a lot to us. We must be aware that communication is going to become the main important element for any partnership. If you are able to listen to us and let us know that you are listening it’s the most wonderful feeling that you can never get over. There aren’t many things more comforting than knowing that there is someone who will take us seriously and listen to our needs.
In the final analysis, isn’t this what relationships are meant to revolve around? Do you not want someone you can count on throughout the day? I must know that you’ll always be there to be with me. I must be aware that you’re likely to be there to listen whenever I’m trying to get something out of my system. It’s important to realize the amount I require someone who is willing to listen to me. You’re always free not to agree, however, you must at least try to take me seriously. Do not make me feel anxious or insecure to talk with you about anything. It’s not a good idea to reach a point at which I have to end my conversation with you.
2. Don’t try to be a snob.
Don’t be a fool and pretend to be attentive to the things we’ve got to say. We communicate with us because we believe in you , and sometimes we require emotional and moral assistance. It’s a bit disappointing when we’re worried about something, and you don’t have anything to say other than”huh” and then you just get to enjoy the conversation. It makes us feel loved and appreciated. Sure, it’s a wonderful gesture that makes me feel that you’re listening to me however, I’m begging to hear from you. And again. Don’t be a fool to take me for granted. When we speak to you, be aware that it’s important. Whatever easy or trivial it might appear to you, you should be attentive to the message.
It’s painful to realize that we’re just wasting our time and letting our hearts to someone who is simply letting everything go through one ear, and out the next. Of course, listening to our words is just one aspect of what we’re expecting you to accomplish. We also expect you to interact with us. We don’t require you to give us any insightful comments or humorous comments. We don’t expect you constantly come up with thoughts of wisdom. At the very minimum, you should respond to us. Connect with us. Make us feel like we’re not speaking to an opponent. Make us feel as if you’re really invested in what we say. Help us understand that you’re not just stating or making us feel like you’re a patron. If I speak to me, I want me to talk to you as well.
3. Give us a hug when We’re sick
We need to feel loved and cared by you when we’re sick. We are sure that you’re extremely concerned when you tell us, ‘take your medicine and then go to bed I’ll take care of all the rest. But this isn’t enough. We need your focus. Be patient with us as a child when we’re sick. Naturally, when we’re at peak health, you can trust us to be with you and take care of every need. We will always do our best to accommodate to your needs. In the end, we are all about you and want to do all we can to make your life as pleasant and enjoyable as it is possible. But, we’re human beings and are tired and sick sometimes as well.
Even though our hearts are strong and filled with affection, we’re never likely to have the physical ability to function effectively in the world. In these times we want to know that you are there to support us. Even small gestures like getting our medications ready or cooking meals for us could help in making us feel secure and well-taken care of. When we’re in the lowest point as well as most vulnerable that’s the time to shine the most brightly. In marriage, people constantly talk about the notion of loving someone even in both health and sickness. This is the reason I must feel your love every time I’m sick, or have any kind of illness.
4. Help out in the home
Yes, we understand that you’re employed, but we are exhausted of doing the same routine again and repeatedly. Help us get at home every week, and on weekends we’re looking for some time off! According to the old adage, it takes two people to dance. There’s more than one person in this situation. There are many people trying to get it to work. If this were the case, we would not be able to make any progress within our relationships. Actually there is no way that a relationship will endure a unidirectional effort.
It’s going to always have to be a collaborative effort. It is essential to ensure that you’re also contributing to assist me in a variety of ways. Maintaining your home isn’t a straightforward task. There are many elements involved in making a healthy and happy living space at home. Much of it involves an honest effort. Yes, I realize that you can get tired by the work you have to do at work. But, I am also exhausted being the mother of the house. I am also tired of keeping things running in the house. This is why I want you to take charge and play your part. I’d like you to assist me with anything that is needed at home. There are many things you can accomplish that I am unable to do.
5. Race errands
Aid us in running the errands, but don’t be selfish. Get rid of the garbage or pick up food items, drop your children off at school, the list continues. Let us help by helping us out a little, but I’m sure If you had to take care of an office and home, you’d be grateful to us more! In the end, being in a relationship such as this one requires you to always have one another’s backs. You must always be able to trust I can be sure that you will be there for me anytime I require you.
I want to be able to trust you to support me when I’m struggling to accomplish my goals. If I can I’ll be running the most errands I can in order to ensure you live a joyful and relaxing one. However, I have to believe that you’re willing to take the same steps for me. I want you to convince me that I’m worthy of the same effort. Even if you’re not willing to take on anything, I’d like to know that you’ll be willing to take on the task in order to simplify my life and make it more comfortable. I must be reassured that you are willing to put my personal happiness and needs over your own needs every time. In the end, when you’re in love with someone selflessness will always to be the most important factor. That’s why I would love it that you’d run errands for me once in a while.