Do you want to date an older man? You may be surprised at how many fascinating reasons older men are attractive to women.
While there are many challenges to any relationship, I will show you the fun and surprising aspects of dating an older man.
1. Your date is a man
He is charming. He is intelligent. He learned manners from his mother. He is also familiar with the term ‘appreciation’, and will not take you for granted. He has made many mistakes in his steamer trunk and will not forget the things you did for him in the past.
2. He’s a good bed partner
He is a master of the bedroom and knows how to navigate a woman’s body. There is no hurry to get out. It can take between 2 and 3 hours to have sex. He wants to see you have multiple orgasms, so there is plenty of foreplay.
3. He is attentive and understanding
He will listen to you when you speak. He will remember all of the information or be as close as possible. He will listen to all your concerns and fears and offer excellent advice. He is not a boy, he’s a man.
4. Nothing can shake his ego
An older man won’t lie to you, he will tell what he wants and not be afraid to ask. If an older man approaches you and refuses to talk, he won’t give up and will continue to mock women on Twitter as narcissistic psychopaths who say no. A knockback is not the end of the matter for him. He exudes confidence. He’ll keep trying.
5. He assists you with your chores
Your date can perform chores without being forced to. It helps to remember the mistakes he made in previous relationships. He understands that it’s not worth breaking up because you can’t get the hoover out.
6. He accepts you for who you are
He is aware that he isn’t dating a supermodel and prefers to be real and accept your imperfections. Leg hair. You get my meaning.
7. He spoils your happiness
An older man tends to have a more stable career. This makes surprise trips abroad to see friends and family and trips to top restaurants and the theatre possible.
8. He doesn’t like to play games.
He doesn’t like playing games with his girlfriends. He knows exactly what he wants, and doesn’t waste time trying to get it. I think games are only for the young, they give them something to do.
9. He gets along well with children
You might have children of your own. You may also have children. He can be a good parent and can take care of them. He won’t panic. I promise.
10. He is able to deal with arguments
He will work hard to maintain the relationship and not be tempted to end it. He may have learned a lot and be able to handle disagreements differently than you are used to.
11. He has learned his lessons
An older man will learn from his past mistakes in relationships and won’t repeat them with you. Note it down. Pin it to your refrigerator for good measure.
12. He doesn’t fear commitment
He is mature enough for conversations about making plans for the future. You won’t see him squirming or trying to get out of the conversation.
13. He doesn’t like clubbing.
He is done with nightclubbing and has stopped going out regularly. He’s exhausted and you secretly feel joy. These places are not something you like. Maybe it’s just occasionally but never daily. You’re not welcome.
14. He has a place
He owns his house. He doesn’t like living in flats with other people and certainly does not live with his mom. It is better to hope that he does not live with his mother.
15. He is financially secure
A senior man won’t ask you to borrow money. If he does ask, then run for the hills.
16. He is a good person.
He knows about telephone etiquette. He will tell you when he will call you. Yes. That’s right. Please call me. You can’t mess around with unclear texts. One-word answers. Jose, there’s no way. He will respond to messages very quickly if you send them one. He doesn’t have the energy or patience to play stupid texting games.
17. Learn from him
He is also more experienced and has more to share. He will be able to communicate well and know what he is talking about. Because he is so secure, it will be a joy to be around him. He will make it easier for you to confide in him and will appreciate your trust enough to do this.
You may not have known of many other surprising facts about women liking older men. You will encounter negative comments depending on how old you are and how aggressive you are. Keep calm and do not take the bait of these devil’ they have called you.