You’re running at a million miles per minute because you don’t want her to ruin your chances of getting along with you. This is how to text her.
You have just met the woman you dream of. Your mind is racing a mile per minute because you don’t want to ruin your chances with her.
You start asking yourself:
“Should I wait for a few days before messaging her?” “
“Do you want to text her right now, so she knows that I love her?” “
“What can I say?” “
“What if she finds me annoying because I speak too much? “
“What if she doesn’t respond? Then how do I contact her again?” “
Perhaps you feel overwhelmed by the task of texting her or are considering giving up. If she rejects you, you can’t bear to be humiliated nor feel like you failed.
But what if she replies?
What happens if she’s really interested in you getting to know her? So, what do we do?
These are the DON’Ts and DO’S of texting a woman that you truly like:
1. What Do I Need To Wait To Text Her After the Meeting?
DO Text her The Day You Meet
After you ask for her number, send her a quick message like “hi”, …”,, or “great meeting with you”. This allows her to store your number and you don’t want to have to contact her again a few days later to ask “who are you?” This can make your conversation difficult as you may start to doubt yourself and the quality of your interactions.
DON’T: Wait Days To Reach Out
If you wait to contact a woman after meeting her, it’s a sign that you aren’t interested in her. It’s not romantic to wait a week before you message her.
Texting her keeps the vibe alive.
2. What If I’m Nervous To Talk To Her?
DO: Be Your Confident Self
Texting a woman you love is a way to show your true self.
DO NOT: Don’t Worry About If She Will Like You
Sometimes, you need to pretend until you make it. You will lose the excitement of getting to know her.
You don’t have to agree with her on everything. Instead, focus on having fun and getting to to know her.
3. What Do I Even Say?
DO: Make Light-hearted Conversation
Keep your messages lighthearted during the first phase of getting to know her. It will help you avoid having to explain or retract any hurt feelings.
Keep the conversation going by asking her questions about her hobbies, her weekends, and where she travels to most.
DO NOT: Use Language That Will Offend Her
Use humor or slang to communicate your opinions. Avoid witty banter.
4. How Long Should My Texts Be?
DO: Keep Your Messages Short
Text messages should be concise.
DON’T: Send Paragraph Text Messages
Avoid going on tangents and writing long paragraphs. This can turn off women. It can make it difficult for women to connect with one another.
5. How Often Do I Respond To Her Messages?
DO Respond Quickly
If you and the woman are in love, then text messaging games about when to reply and when to not respond are ridiculous.
DON’T: Wait Days To Respond
It is not a good idea to wait eight hours, or even several days, to reply to a message.
6. What can I do to keep the conversation going?
DO: Ask Her Questions
Asking questions is the best way to get to know your woman.
DON’T: Just Talk About Yourself
Talking about yourself too much in conversation can lead to boredom. Relationships are about getting to know each other.
7. What if she doesn’t respond to my initial text?
DO: Give Her Time And Space
You may think she is very well-rounded, but she might be keeping her hands tied up.
DON’T: Keep Messaging Her
Multiple messages to a woman with whom you do not have a strong connection can be quite annoying.