You would be surprised at how many times you could be so wrong about how another person feels about you. You could feel like everything is doing well in your relationship, but little do you know that your partner doesn’t correctly see things in the same way.
On the surface, everything seems fine. You think that you’re both on the right path as a couple. And you don’t see any reason why neither of you would be able to make things last in your relationship. But again, there might be things that are bubbling up underneath the surface – and it could potentially catch you by surprise.
There is very little that you can do whenever someone you like just doesn’t want you in the same manner. Yes, you could try a few things to make yourself more attractive. But at the end of the day, some things just aren’t meant to be, and you need to be able to accept that.
You can’t compel another person into having feelings for you. It just doesn’t work that way. So you don’t have to feel too bad if the guy that you’ve liked doesn’t really like you in return. The best possible thing that you can do if you find yourself in this scenario is to accept the cards that fate has dealt you, and move on with your life.
So how do you know for sure that a guy just isn’t into you even when you think that he is? Well, there are a few signs that you could stay on the lookout for.
1. He doesn’t make you feel like he accepts you for who you are.
He is always looking to criticize you. He is still so quick to point out your little flaws. And he isn’t doing it out of love either. He’s deliberately doing it to try and change you. He somehow never makes you feel like he can accept you for who you are.
2. He always seems too busy for you.
A man who is genuinely into you would do whatever he can to spend time with you. You can’t expect any man to spend ALL of his time with you. But if he liked you, he would move some stuff in his schedule around to accommodate you in his life.
3. He hasn’t introduced you to his closest buds.
He doesn’t want to introduce you to the most intimate aspects of his life because he’s just not too keen on integrating you as an essential facet of his life. He just doesn’t see the two of you ever becoming an item.
4. He changes the topic whenever you try to bring up talks about the future.
The truth is that he just doesn’t envision a future with the two of you in it because he doesn’t like you in that way. He just isn’t interested in anything romantic with you.
5. He only ever compliments you about how you look.
You might think that he likes you because he tells you that you’re pretty all the time. But has he ever complimented you on anything other than your looks?
6. He doesn’t put effort into planning your dates.
He doesn’t even plan your dates at all. It’s always you who plans everything. It’s still you who acts as the initiator. Somehow, it’s always you who has to make plans. Otherwise, the two of you wouldn’t be spending any time together at all. He isn’t making any effort to connect with you.
7. He doesn’t act territorial or jealous when you flirt with other men.
You would never want to be in a relationship with an overly jealous and possessive guy. That’s toxic. But if a guy isn’t even acting the least bit territorial or jealous when it comes to you, then it’s probably because he isn’t invested in the idea of being with you.
8. He doesn’t make you feel like you can rely on him.
You can’t depend on him to be there for you whenever you need help or when times get a little rough. He’s not a guy who is going to stay as a constant presence in your life.
9. Your friends tell you that he’s not into you.
Never discount the advice of your friends. They are always there to look out for you. Yes, you shouldn’t be living your life based on what your friends tell you. But you still have to make it a point to hear them out as well – especially the friends you can trust. They only want what’s best for you, after all.
10. You’re not sure about how he feels about you.
If a guy likes you, then you would probably know about it. You wouldn’t be doubting yourself or be feeling insecure. A guy who genuinely likes you is a guy who would put effort into making sure that you know that you are loved and appreciated.
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