How do you know you can trust him? Have you ever trusted a man too quickly and ended up disappointed? Here are seven tips to check before investing yourself in a new relationship as well as all the answers you need to the question, how do you know you can trust him?
1. STUDY THE PAST
Ask him about past relationships. Not on the first date, of course. After a few months of dating, someone asks him why his previous relationship ended? Or why all his relationships failed? An answer itself will indicate how much you can trust him moving forward.
If he continually avoids talking about tough topics, how are you going to trust him?
3. TAKE TIME
Spend significant time (at least six months) with him. Time tells you everything you need to know about him. Every person has an angel and a demon inside. Don’t invest yourself until you have seen the demon side of him.
4. LOOK AT HIS PLATONIC RELATIONSHIPS
Don’t look only on the romantic side of him. Watch how he treats his friends, family, mother. This will give you a perfect answer to how he will treat you in the future.
5. THE JUDGEMENTAL SIDE OF HIM
If you share something about you that is less than perfect, pay attention to how he is going to judge you?! If he has a critical view of those impurities you may have in your life, how are you going to be yourself around him?
He is able to trust you. But trust is a two-way street. Have you earned his trust yet? Also, ask yourself if he can trust you in a relationship. A man is never going to open up to you if he doesn’t trust you.
Don’t be afraid to believe your instincts about the person.