I was talking to a friend of mine and how she completely rejected a guy on the first date because he asked her a silly question. First dates are hard, they set the stage for what’s to come (or not to) and a lot is riding on them. I’ve been to one bad first date in my life, and I still can’t forget how horrible it felt when it wasn’t going in the right direction, when you see a lot of hope just fading away as time goes by. The same goes for someone you have a crush on, you can easily mess it up if you act a little also stupid or upfront with them, it can easily scare them away before they even get to know you. So I made a list of questions, questions you can use on your first date or during your first serious conversation with each other. These questions can also lessen the awkwardness between you two and will pave the way towards finding chemistry together. Let’s begin.
1. When was the last time you cried and what was the reason?
2. What scares you the most?
3. Who is the most essential person to you?
4. What do you hate about yourself?
5. What’s your favourite book and why?
6.В When was the last time when you felt extremely happy?
7. What’s your dream job?
8. What do you dislike about yourself the most?
9. If you could go back in time, what would you tell yourself in the past?
10. What’s your favourite TV show?
11. Who knows you inside out?
12. What’s that one thing you badly want to do in your life?
13. Who’s that one friend you can call your “closest friend”?
14. What do you regret doing the most in life?
15. Unlimited money or infinite happiness?
16. If you see your ex somewhere, what would you do?
17. Are you happy with the person you are or do you aspire to be someone else?
18. Do you have faith in karma?
19. Do you believe in hope?
20. What are you superstitious about?
21. What’s the biggest lesson you’ve learnt in life so far?
22. Who are you closer to, your mother or your father?
23. What would make you the happiest person in the world?
24. If you could trade lives with someone for a day, who would it be?
25. What do you hate the most in others?
Add to the list, folks
Add your own questions to the list by commenting below. And as always, stay blessed and keep the love alive!
The more you understand yourself, the more silence there is, the healthier you are. —Maxime Lagacé