This could explain why.
Aries (March 21st to April 19th)
You have a unique flare for life. You like to be constantly on the go to try new thing and go on adventures. It’s the biggest reason people dislike you a kind of hate from feelings of both respect and envy. They do value and appreciate the lively kind of persona you exhibit. But at the same time, they grow to envy you due to this reason. That brings in all the hate.
Despite that, they enjoy hate-stalking you on your social media. That is because they simply cannot resist rolling their eyes at you and admire the new and adventurous things you keep yourself busy with; the fancy and funky restaurants you keep checking out every weekend, the photos you put up from your latest trips, the language learning classes you take and the list goes onit all adds up to something called life for you, and a reason to be envious and spiteful towards you for the rest of the world.
Do not let their hatred and envy of this kind stop you from being the person you are, though. You only live once so might as well have all the fun you can. You can also read our very famous articles on how to love an Aries and how you should be loved.
Taurus (April 20th to May 21st)
You are widely known for having a great sense of security and stability. That being said, you also like to maintain a cool, collective demeanor that makes you feel at ease in your skin as well as going for the pleasing aesthetics in lifeno matter how dire and rough the situation might get around you.
It does not matter what kind of task it is brightening up your bedroom with the simplest yet artistic ideas; that old outfit you stitch and sew to make it classy; your messy hairdo on a humid day which you somehow make look stylish and comfy at the same time all of this and more is what causes those who lay eyes on you to be both awed and hateful towards you.
They hate you for your skills at mastering the difficult into the comfortable, the dull into art, for your attention to great detail and so forth. You can also read our another piece on 7 things that make Taurus the most romantic partner ever.
Gemini (May 22nd to June 21st)
Being the dual ones, you always have two sides to everything. Even with that sweet bubbly face which likes to smile and indulge in interesting conversations with people no matter what, you still have your demons and your grey clouds hovering above your head. Some might say you are fake, even though it is just your dual nature that leaves that kind of impression.
It becomes more focused of a fact when you are the life of a party and make everyone laugh and have a blast, basically, that people feel bizarrely excited about this and go on telling others that you are just a faker that even despite the smiles on the surface, you have a deep dark and sad side beneath. But come to think of itwho doesn’t? Also read our separate article for Geminies: 5 Easy Ways to Like a Gemini.
Cancer (June 22nd to July 22nd)
Cancerians are the shy introverted types. Spending so much time in their shell, which makes them feel all at home, they have good time and skills on their hands to be not just silent figures but silent figures that observe and analyzed then over analyze it all in their heads.
This adds up to the quality of being very intuitive and being good at reading others’ emotions, moods and basically reading the map of their personalities. It sometimes freaks out the other person too, how good you are reading them that they just back off and start hating you for knowing them too well. Because you’re good at reading others, you can, in a way, see right through themwhich is to say that you can see past their fakeness and tell them so.
It’s like having a natural detector for that kind of stuff. This makes people uncomfortable and in their defense when they feel you come at that too strong they tell you are way too emotional and moody. No one likes their privacy being invaded. When you know someone so well, they feel there’s little left you don’t already know about them and that makes them hate you, how you know them so well and don’t give them the benefit of the doubt. Also read 10 things you need to know about a Cancerian woman.
Leo (July 23rd to August 22nd)
Known not just for their ego and boldness, you also have a flare for the unique and creative. It makes people look up to you for motivation as well as hate you at the same time. Once you set your mind about something, you go forth and do it, come what may.
Those around you who harbor negative emotions for you look at you at the peak of success, with a determination and strong will. This makes them hate you, given the fact their own life is going down the spiral in terms of career, relationships and so forth. Basically, you symbolize everything good they wish to possess in their own life.
Therefore, being around you becomes intimidating for them and they start to invest those negative energies into hatred and envy for you. Here are some qualities of Leo women and how you should treat them the right way.
Virgo (August 23rd to September 22nd)
You’re hated because you have it all figured out. Yes, as simple of a reason as that sounds, it is true. After all, the world and its people are weird that way. They hate you because when they barely know what degree they want to pursue in a year or two, you have made all the plans for which major you would like to adopt, what age you would want to get married at, how many kids you will want to have, which country you wish to settle in and so on.
When people feel lost and disconnected with their deepest, truest selves and are feeling vulnerable, they hate being around someone who is the entire oppositesuch as a Virgo; all in control and completely in tune with their goals and desires. Even if people appreciate your sense of such control and your personal strength to overcome your self-doubts, they hate you for it too. You are someone who they cannot be and that is an itch on the back for them. Here are 13 things that you should know about loving a Virgo.
Libra (September 23rd to October 22nd)
Charm, wit, friendliness, sympathetic, extra caring and just you have got it all. Being so easygoing, people do get to enjoy being with you as you make sure everyone has the time of their life. And being so likeable, people hate you or spending too much time with you.
It becomes kind of frustrating for them because being the person you, the spotlight is always on you. You might get too used to and too wrapped up in the compliments coming your way. That feels burdensome to those around you. They might feel neglected, that you are ignoring them being under the spotlight even if that is far from being the case. This is why you are despised, mostly. Also read Why are Libras considered as the best long term partners.
Scorpio (October 23rd to November 22nd)
You have the sort of personality that boasts of passion, excitement, diligence and a very hardworking nature. As much as they want to follow you, people also hate you for having these qualities. As much as your colleagues like working with you, they also dread working with you because they know the task will go perfectly according to plan and you will end up gaining all the credit for it.
Feeling so left out, they will most likely associate those feelings with those of hatred. As badly as people want to be like you in life, they also want to knock you down despite your resilient nature for being respected and likes most of the times. Your enthusiasm bites them hard and it makes them despise you. If you’re planning on dating a Scorpio then you should know the 15 Brutally Honest things about Scorpios.
Sagittarius (November 23rd to December 21st)
You have a way with being the more optimistic and funny one than the other person. It comes easy to you, by nature. You can easily lift others’ spirits and make them see the fun side to things they thought to be dull and boring at first.
However, people love it when that same sense of positivism occasionally comes back at you and they hate you for being so positive about things to begin with; for lifting their mood and getting their hopes high for nothing. Even if things work out for the best in time, you have managed to spring forth of hatred in others for yourself. Also read, 10 Ways to Like a Sagittarius.
Capricorn (December 22nd to January 20th)
You are known to possess personal traits such as ambition, patience and wise decision-making things that most people are desperately trying to imitate and develop permanently in their personal and work life but that seem to come to you effortlessly.
Even though people appreciate these things in you and how they mold you as a person, they do feel good when you lose your cool, face insecurities, doubt yourself and go through a genuine pessimistic phase in your life. It makes them tell themselves that you have not got it all indeed.
But then again, no one does, and that is why it gives someone no reason to hate you blindly. Nonetheless, it is a cause for others to feel intimidated by you. 10 Things to Remember While Loving a Capricorn and if you are in a relationship with a Capricorn read, 10 ways to make a strong relationship with a Capricorn!
Aquarius (January 21st to February 18th)
You are widely known for being the “whateverists”, the careless kind of people. Not careless regarding your duties and responsibilities in life but just regarding the negative things others do and say against you. Now come to think of it, this is one of those things that everyone wishes they had: the skill to not care about trivial issues, to have that sure peace of mind.
Being such a whateverest in turn leads to having a strong sense of independence. This independency of your own originality frustrates people more than you realize. This is why sometimes, they just want to see you fall like everyone else, because that will somehow make them feel like their days of self-doubt, self-loathing and weakness are totally okay and normal. Also read, 9 Things to Adopt For a Healthy Relationship with an Aquarius.
Pisces (February 19th to March 20th)
The subtle compassion and sensitivity you are a master of are some of the rare things in this world. Others do appreciate them but they are also jealous by it. This is why every once in a while, they want to see you lose it and crack, to lose your temper so that they can have something to gossip about. Society tells you to be someone then goes oh no, not like this.
Speaking in the same pretext, people want to see you unhappy at least sometimes so they can feel a sense of familiarity; that you are just as unhappy as them. That won’t leave them out of the loop and so, seeing you all cheery and sunshines, they start to dislike you. Also read, 10 things you need to know about Loving a Pisces.
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